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Oui, oui! I’ve recently decided that I’m no longer a packrat, but indeed, a collector! If Barbra Streisand can have a room (not just a closet) of her “vintage” clothes, than I too can deem however much space I want to as my “collection” of books, vinyl, old emails written & received when living in Paris, along with my 9+ bins of photos! Unfortunately I still can’t justify all the papers that live in boxes, file folders and drawers. I’m talking of old insurance policies for cars and homes no longer owned. I know. I’m bad.

At 77 I keep saying I need to start Swedish death-cleaning. My only child is totally opposite to me. I don’t think she keeps even one Hallmark greeting card a week past her birthday. She specifically has told me she wants only the VHS homemade tapes from the family reunions, parties, holidays and trips. She doesn’t want any of “my stuff”, like all les Tour Eiffels I have amassed. Well maybe she’d want the one by Baccarat that I bought when living there, but other than all the photos, she wants nada. And there are beaucoup, as I used to order doubles. And, I also did some photography (I can relate to your daughter.) for which I even got paid. Thus the 9+ bins!

So I have no excuse in keeping anything that really doesn’t suit my current life. I can’t pass tchotchkes onto grandchildren, as I have only granddogs. I am giving my vinyl albums and CDs to one of my great-nieces. But no one wants mixed tapes🙀! In fact, I don’t really even need them now. Although I can see keeping some treasured items, living in a 2 br flat has its limitations. Clearly much of the paper needs to be tossed and, yes, perhaps even the mixed tapes!

I will look at the collections, as you suggested, to reflect on their meaning and who I was when I acquired them. That would probably make a good chapter.

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